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Love was to blame!

They said love is the best thing that can happen to us.
With love we can forgive.
With love we can improve our personality.
With love we don't have to fear.
With love nothing can stop us to reach our objective.
With love we give unconditionally.
And yet, Love seems not the answer at all of what we are hoping when a situation occurred especially if the issue is something that we can't / haven't be able to resolve.
Those who had left their partner after decades of relationship with two or four children said that love is a slavery. They couldn't do much of their free time even thought that the "Discussion" to catching up with a friend or having a day our of self treat was agreed. They said that whatever they are doing, the questions of where are you? With who are you? At what time you coming home? Are constantly asked.
Facts, we shouldn't Blame the word "Love" as our main reason of why our relationship didn't go as we wanted it to be just because we don't want to carry the guilty.
Scandalous, it is so easy to say "Love is sucks" when we know damn well we are the source of the situation. Scandalous, we tend to runaway from our guilt or pretending to not see the trouble after six or a year of spotting the miss understandings.
Fact, the sooner we spot the problem or unhappy about something we should talk and get the matter fixed before it getting worse. Fact, the decision is ours!
Scandalous or facts?


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