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We don't have to be like them!

Some of us are born with privileged family. Lucky for some of us we don't have to worry about paying our monthly bills, and buying all brand of clothes, shoes, accessories and travelling as much as we wished without worrying about money. For some of us we are blessed to be born alive and in good health but unlucky to have that comfortable life. 

Yes! For most of us our journey to find that right job at the right time with the right manager is a random; we have to hope for the best. Unfortunately, many of us end up with the right organisation but wrong manager. But shall we run away from because our current manager is not a good leader? 

We understand that we have to follow a specific policy if we want our manager to recognise our hard work. Unfortunately it is not (Most) always the case. In many occasion, if we want that pay raise we have to be nice, we have to give that fake smile, we become their little dog and do as they pleased. On other hands, we have to be hypocrite. 

Yes, we all want that promotion by showing our commitment to our duties. But if our manager made it clear to you "If you want something from me you better be kind" Well, if we are smart enough we have the answer that not matter how long hours we are working, do more than what is stated on our job description; our manager is not going to give us that promotion because we were not nice. 

Being an hypocrite, we don't have to be like them, smiling where the joke is not even funny, participating in a conversation where it is not even making any sense. We are worthy than to be someone that we are not. Yes, we want to grow in our professional path, but let us be rewarded from our honesty and hard work. 

Yes, we want that pay raise, but let us receive it because it is an honest recognition. Let us keep doing our work with good heart because it is about our peace within that matter before them. 
We surely don't have to be like them. 

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