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Shall we get Divorce or Not!



It has been said that when we have made the decision to marry that special person to be part of our life until our last breath, the oath is forever. it mean that the boundaries of that promise to love one to another from bad to good time should be present at every beating of our hearts. It does mean that the both party have the full understand of being honest one to another with strong trust. It does mean that if we need a wall to lean on he or she will be there to offer his or her shoulder, if we need a rock to stand firm against a tsunami he or she will protect us to not getting hurt.

Yet! From the beginning to date the word of “Divorce” is become more fashionable in our day-to-day life style to follow than to be forbidden. It is seemed and especially in now days we got married for special self-interest than for true love. I am not saying that the true love do not exist any more, I am saying that marrying to someone for love is not famous as it used to be. On other hand, most of people are now getting married of sake no to be alone or to have a child then couple years later we ask for divorce.

We could look into the facts that we can save that marriage by understanding what went wrong? We need to take time for ourselves and be honest that somehow we made mistakes. We need to look at the facts that there is not an honest relationship if we don’t fight, arguing, celebrating and admitting that there is a problem and let do something about it instead of running away from idles to make one thing right.

We made the decision to break the oath for a fresh meat, for temporary flings that we know at the end of the day we are still in need to be with that special person to love us of who we are, to care about us unconditionally, to be our best friends at any time when we needed to talk. We often tend to search something that it is only in our mind. We often refer our life to fairytale which can happen with limit of access.

We could stop taking the wrong decision and heal our fear that the first true love is not lost. It is out there inside of us, surrounding us, but we just have to make sure that we are willing to fight and re-light the candle of hope again. It is not that we run away from our current situation today that we are not going to have the same matter with our next new relationship tomorrow.

Divorcing is not a game but we seem think it is. Divorcing is one case that we could avoid but not getting married at the first place, but we do to please the public eyes. Divorcing will cost us financially and emotionally and yet we still take the decision to marry, and then divorce.

We are our own decision to make and stop things to happen.

Scandalous or facts?



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  1. Le divorce se fait comme quand on prend la d├ęcision de s'acheter une nouvelle paire de chaussures

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