Many occasions we are asking to ourselves how we can have a better life. What is it that we want in our personal life for it to last forever? What is it that we are so scare to not make that “One decision” and live in day-to-day life with peace to the one that we vow to love till death do us apart.
We cannot answer to that question to our partner until we are aware of who we are. We cannot please our marriage until we are sure that we have the full understanding of what is the true definition of relationship is all about. We cannot please our partner if we are not even happy within ourselves.
We cannot have an honest marriage if we are not willing to accept that a true happiness of relationship is about Commitment, Tolerate with an honest Communication.
Yes! We fear to be alone. We fear to lose our pride. We fear to be seen as a fool, stupid, useless and immature. We are worry about our reputation than our relationship. The answer of our trouble marriage is right inside of our heart.
It is not an easy decision when it is about to lift up our marriage problem as we all wish it. We are aware that to make an end of our marriage trouble it does take two. The both parties will need to have the same vision to walk out from it or the same willing to forgive.
There are not specific ages to develop ourselves. There is not specific ages to accept and telling to ourselves that we are not perfect. We are all humans, we are all have made mistakes and sad to say this but we are still going to make some errors in our life, although our stupidity will have less consequences than previous ones. On other hand, we will be more mature to stand firm and resolve the matter in accurate ways.
When we are spotting something isn’t right with our relationship, the question of “Shall I” do something about it is stirring inside of our brain as if we want it to getting worse. When we have found out that our partner did cheat on us the question of “I shall not” saying anything as I don’t want to lose her or he is the top of thought. Yes! We want to accept the adultery because we are somehow weak of our own feeling. We are scare about our appearance and ashamed of our situation as if people do really care.
I shall make the right decision for my own interest before it getting worse. I shall learn more when it did start the affairs and why? I shall speak up about this because it is not just about one person's life that it is on the line but two or three. I shall find out if there is a hope? I shall trust my first instinct without fear. I shall not definitely keep this matter quiet because at the end of the day if there is a life, there is a second chance.
Scandalous or facts?