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Be open minded!

 “My momma always said, ‘Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're going to get,’ cast by Tom Hanks which I believe that he did acts pretty well in this movie of Forrest Gump. 

What I found amazing about this quote is that yes, may be our life is like a box of chocolate or our life is not  at all like a box of chocolate because we do know what we are going to get while buying chocolates.

Now, could this proverb is true? A fact is we do know what to expect while we are buying a box of chocolate but we surely do not know what type of taste the chocolate is going to be on the top of the basic milk, coffee and caramel.

We all do know of what the chocolate is made and most of the ingredients are. What we might think by “Life is like a box of chocolates” is that we have our routine life with the unexpected situation which is going to disturbing our comfortable zone. We never know what we are going to get is based on it taste, it flavour and the consequences that we are going to have while we are biting it. Yes! We have our routine and most of the time we don't want to bother to challenge anything especially when we damn well know that something isn't right within our personal life, professional or within ourselves.

By not mean we are not forbidden to challenge our fear to taste new condiments of how the chocolate is made. And our life is exactly like a box of chocolate, we tend not making any efforts to lift up our happiness but just letting ourselves idles of the usual life. We tend to be happy of what we have even though that we are fully aware that we can achieve something better than where we are now. We are letting the negativity to be the crown of our ambitious skills to lead our life.

We can control our feeling but we definitely can't stop an indirect problem to collide into our life. So when we buy a box of chocolate, we can't stop the suppliers to put two or three pieces of chocolate liquor in the box that we are going to buy, but what are we going to do about it if we don't consumed alcohol? Are we going to walk away from it or figure out something to develop our skills and be open minded?

There is nothing to stopping us to try new things, after all what we have to lose? Well, what we are going to lose is the time that we have wasted of not doing anything.

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