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We have not right.

We have not right to tell people how they should feel. We have not right to tell people when they should cry. We have not right to criticise people because that is our wish. We have not right to cry on behalf of anyone because we think it is best way to do so. We have not right to love someone that we know she or he is not our destiny. We have not right to lie to gain people’s trust. We have not right to destroy people’s life. We have not right to tell people when they should speak up. We have not right to tell people how should we stand. We have not right to be ashamed of who we are. We have to feel sorry for not reasons. We have not right to think that we are perfect. We are in our right to accept our mistakes so let not be stubborn as if we are the best of the best.
Yes! We don’t have any right to judge people. We are who we are and we should respect each individual’s journey. We should listen their adventures and take them as our motivation to give our best to develop ou…

We don't have to be like them!

Some of us are born with privileged family. Lucky for some of us we don't have to worry about paying our monthly bills, and buying all brand of clothes, shoes, accessories and travelling as much as we wished without worrying about money. For some of us we are blessed to be born alive and in good health but unlucky to have that comfortable life. 
Yes! For most of us our journey to find that right job at the right time with the right manager is a random; we have to hope for the best. Unfortunately, many of us end up with the right organisation but wrong manager. But shall we run away from because our current manager is not a good leader? 
We understand that we have to follow a specific policy if we want our manager to recognise our hard work. Unfortunately it is not (Most) always the case. In many occasion, if we want that pay raise we have to be nice, we have to give that fake smile, we become their little dog and do as they pleased. On other hands, we have to be hypocrite. 
Yes, we a…

Experience doesn't make a rule about us!

They said when we grow old we can do whatever pleased us in life. We are free to sleep all day and not bothering to take a shower. We can eat as much as we wished with our own condiments. We can speak freely without fear to be told off of our strangebehaviour language. We can wear any style of clothes as well to be nude if we wanted. Life seems very interesting to live sooner we reach that age of freedom. 
We have this idea of living in a landscape with our own rules. We have this vision of liberty where nothing can stop us. We have this certainty that people will follow our rule as we tell them what to do and not to do. 
We surely tend to forget that if we don't like to receive an order from anyone, what make us think that the second or third party will be pleased to execute our request? We surely forget that we should treat other people in the way how we want to be treated. Nevertheless, we believe that with our own experience, the hard journey that we have had, the amount of wate…

Every minute is valuable.

We do know how important life about is. Yet! We sometimes forget the main importance of how valuable our time is! We are wasting our time in doing anything but complaining. We all seem know what we want to happen in our life this to include having the power to lead a country, to have more than enough money in our bank account, and have the handsome or beautiful woman on our side from good to bad.
Although, if we have everything we wished for in our life we seem want more of whatever is that we don't see because we are too focused on the appearance. We have enough time to waste our treasure minutes to surf the Facebook and reading those 95% unnecessary notifications. We have enough time to gossip about people's life instead of taking care of our own life. We surely do have lots of energy when it is about taking care of others life, why is that?
We couldn't say the problem is not fixable because it is. We surely do not make any efforts to treasure our life before our job. W…

Just don’t do it!

What is about us to find that true love and yet we are not ready to move forward and make that decision that it is time to stop playing around as if we just want to have that one night stand still. We tend to willing to do whatever we pleased to gain our future candidate confident that we are a “Good person”. We tend to have that fascinated discussion on our first three dates thanks to our new generation where it is a routine to give ourselves on the same night or the second dates without any feeling of prejudice.
It understands that we are living in such easy access of our body with fifty of fifty that we are in luck to not see that person again. One thing is sure we were fool to let it happen so that easily. However, shall we keep undervaluing our body when we are in that age with enough experience of knowing what is wrong and what we want is? The worse thing is with possibility to haunt our wrong doing forever we might not be able to stop as it will come as an addiction.
Some of…

What happened to the real movies CASTS?

Our new actors seems not anymore like it used to be. I am not expecting to stay on old fashion with right talented such Leonardo Di Caprio, Sean Connery, Clint Eastwood, Elizabeth Taylor or John Wayne. But at least the new generation should bring better skills by taking the old generation experiences and added their new ideas with huge great expectation. Yet, when we look at the new generation in their new journey to be on the spotlight of the famous red carpet, Oscars award winner, it is disappointing to see that majority of our new actress and actors are better to do some catwalk for Victoria Beckham or Kate Moss than acting.
Secondly, the movies of nowadays has become more commercial. Most of casts are just on the spotlight for at least 2 years enough to cash 10 million in their bank account and if lucky enough Simon Cowell will offer them a job to be one of his commercial music business such X Factor judge.
I still believe we have talented candidates out there who could pull ou…

Be open minded!

“My momma always said, ‘Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're going to get,’ cast by Tom Hanks which I believe that he did acts pretty well in this movie of Forrest Gump. 
What I found amazing about this quote is that yes, may be our life is like a box of chocolate or our life is not  at all like a box of chocolate because we do know what we are going to get while buying chocolates.
Now, could this proverb is true? A fact is we do know what to expect while we are buying a box of chocolate but we surely do not know what type of taste the chocolate is going to be on the top of the basic milk, coffee and caramel.
We all do know of what the chocolate is made and most of the ingredients are. What we might think by “Life is like a box of chocolates” is that we have our routine life with the unexpected situation which is going to disturbing our comfortable zone. We never know what we are going to get is based on it taste, it flavour and the consequences that we a…

It is okay to be alone!

There is time we felt lost! There is time we are hunted by the past! There is time we fear our heart will let us down! There is time we wished our life is better that it is now! There is time we scare to not meet that person with who we will have our last breath.
There is thing that we can’t understand why thing happened to us. Life is indeed a journey that for some we don’t make the first decade to experience our adolescent life. For some we are just about to learn something for the first time that we are about to live without saying goodbye. For some, after achieving the biggest challenges of our objective which we waited for many years, we then been told to give up. 
Could thing happen for reasons! When time is right, only each of us can answer that question. Sometimes, we feel rejected! But that is okay, we learn something from that loneliness. I believe what we need to understand is to accept that we can’t always pleased others. We have to learn to say thanks and not thank …

We are Okay! We are still Learning!

In many occasions we are founding ourselves in the situation of illusion as if we are lost from the reality. There is time when we are thinking that nobody sees us as we walking that routine street from home to work. We are looking for that special answer of our wanders while we are in the heart of “What if” or “I should have done?” 
We don’t understand why bad or good things happened to us. We trust people that we meet. We open our life to someone that we think will lead us from difficulties to a better sky. We learn our mistakes by getting as many as outcomes we get from our friends to a better us. Yet, there are times where we think we have done all our best to be someone new, a better us, we are still confuse about things that we don’t have the answer as we expected.
Like it or not, people will never stop to take us as a fool queen.
We have this emptiness in us that even talking about our anxiety; we are confused of its presence in our life. We have this lack of self-confident…

Shall I or shall I not?

Many occasions we are asking to ourselves how we can have a better life. What is it that we want in our personal life for it to last forever? What is it that we are so scare to not make that “One decision” and live in day-to-day life with peace to the one that we vow to love till death do us apart.
We cannot answer to that question to our partner until we are aware of who we are. We cannot please our marriage until we are sure that we have the full understanding of what is the true definition of relationship is all about. We cannot please our partner if we are not even happy within ourselves.
We cannot have an honest marriage if we are not willing to accept that a true happiness of relationship is about Commitment, Tolerate with an honest Communication.
Yes! We fear to be alone. We fear to lose our pride. We fear to be seen as a fool, stupid, useless and immature. We are worry about our reputation than our relationship. The answer of our trouble marriage is right inside of our heart.…

Shall we get Divorce or Not!

It has been said that when we have made the decision to marry that special person to be part of our life until our last breath, the oath is forever. it mean that the boundaries of that promise to love one to another from bad to good time should be present at every beating of our hearts. It does mean that the both party have the full understand of being honest one to another with strong trust. It does mean that if we need a wall to lean on he or she will be there to offer his or her shoulder, if we need a rock to stand firm against a tsunami he or she will protect us to not getting hurt.
Yet! From the beginning to date the word of “Divorce” is become more fashionable in our day-to-day life style to follow than to be forbidden. It is seemed and especially in now days we got married for special self-interest than for true love. I am not saying that the true love do not exist any more, I am saying that marrying to someone for love is not famous as it used to be. On other hand, most of p…