Often we are hearing that a tiny smile can make huge differences to someone’s life. In facts, it is indeed true. So when we see an individual with a long face we tend to cheer that person in hope that she or he will give that little smile. On other hands, without exaggerating to be the saviour of the world, we came up with a joke. We are more than lucky if it does works.
It is hard to tell why some people just don’t smile. It is hard to guess what is on people’s mind when we don’t have any sign of joy in their face. It is hard to judge people just because they are not smiling. None of us can define the true story of why sometimes we are not in good mood to smile.
Moreover, we can always find out the reason of such sadness from our own experience. It is not difficult to figure out why we have lost the touch of smiling. It is not hard to discover that we are all in some way having the same symptom of losing the interest to smile. Yes, we are experiencing the same anxiety, disappointment but the only difference is that it will happen in different time, and situation.
It is important that before telling someone off why she or he is not smiling we should learn to be at their feet. Before judging someone of their bad humour, we should think twice about our questions before asking. Before jumping into the conclusion of our own thought, we should give time for them express their true feeling. Let us not misinterpret someone’s story from not smiling without acknowledging the true reason.
We should give an honest smile. Smiling should come from our heart and no forcing. Smiling is to recognise our true honesty to ourselves. Let us smile for us before smiling for others. After all, it is not possible to smile to someone just for the sake to please them while inside of us we don’t even see the beauty from it. It is okay to not smiling, but if someone come to us and say why you don’t smile? Make sure that before we give that smile, we put our desire to smile for us first.
Scandalous or facts?