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It is okay to Ask for Help!

Left in the corner can be frustrated especially when we think that we do not have anyone to understand our need. Yet, we are certainly sure that nobody sees or feels our self-trouble. Or maybe, we gave to our observers the feeling that we don't need them. We have this attitude that we can achieve without anyone physical or emotional help. We are repeating within us that people came to our life in exchange of something. Sad to say but most of people who come to us indeed are expecting some reward after providing their service.

We can't stop misinterpretations of our thought or the misunderstanding of how people see us. The life that we are living on is full of fake people, but do not close our true identity because of them. Our life isn't perfect nor are they. We are aware of what is right but this is not stopping us to do the wrong thing. In ignoring the right decision, we seem love staring at how people did fail in their aim; it is our little dirty pleasure. We are aware of what is wrong and yet we are still taking the bad decision. We made silly decision because we don't trust our own ability.

Life is indeed a journey of building ourselves to stand firm with our identity, we shouldn't fear or overreacted of people suggestion. After all, if we look at Moses's journey, not only he had God to guide his challenge to free the Egyptians from slavery, but he asked helps to speak on his behalf, and that is why his brother coming in his journey to make the speech. Although, he didn't tell to his brother the true reason why Aaron shall speak on his behalf, but he knew, he needed help in his communication skills. He asked God to help, and via God, Moses asked his brother to go with him. It doesn't matter to whom we are asking for help, but as long as we stay and be who we are; we shall not be ashamed to agree and say to ourselves that it is okay to ask for help!  

Furthermore, when looking at the bright side of asking for help the right person will help us unconditionally! So believe and ask for help. 

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