Skip to main content

Love and respect our body the same way we treasure our little dirty secret.

“You can run, you can hide, but you can’t escape my love.” I used to listen this Enrique Iglesias’s song on and on during a season of wanders. It seems that our body is exactly the same lyrics. We can change the way we are clothing to hide some of our body part. Vice versa, we don’t even taking care of the way we dress by just putting tiny lingerie for the rest of the world to see. We don’t think about the bad influences that we are given to our public eyes and how this could end up in a mess of disrespect, mockery but most of all, to be insulted

It is sound silly to believe but we are our own responsible of how we want to be respected.

People will give us respect the way how we dress. People will see our simplicity the way how we speak to them, with friendly manners. People are going to be more care of who we are as long as we do show them our value. 

Every move we make, we will be criticised. Every clothes we are wearing, we will be given an uncomfortable eyes contact. Every word that came out from our lips will be judged. Our life is like a puzzle, every step we decide to take; it is a risk to doubt our self-confidence of whom we are.

We can change the way we speak. We can change the way we walk. We can change the way we think. We can change the way how we see life. Yes, it can be long ride to be someone better, someone with valued. Everything is possible as long as we have the willing to do so. Everything is possible as long as we believe on ourselves. Everything is possible as long as we are patient enough to take the long ride.

Scandalous or facts we should respect our body, otherwise if we don’t, who else will. Scandalous or facts, our body is our treasure, we should put more time and be romance to ourselves, we need to say to ourselves how beautiful we are. Sometimes, what we need is just that one word of “Love” to empower our faith that we are made through our Creator’s love. Scandalous or facts, what we need is to stop striving and just let our body have some rest; we will be surprised of the outcome we are going to get from it.


  1. Oui tu as raison. C'est exactement ce que je vis au quotidien: De notre apparence dépend si nous allons avoir un (e) "ami(e)" si nous allons être apprécié au travail et ce au détriment de nos compétences. Malheureusement je suis sceptique et j'ai bien peur qu'il sera difficile de changer la donne. Mais c'est bien que des gens comme toi parle de cela


Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

A smile doesn't cost anything.

We fought for freedom We fought for power We fought for money We fought for spotlight We fought for liberty
And yet all of those fights are for what?
For many centuries men fought for freedom to speak freely and yet it seems never enough to appreciate the good result from it. We keep fighting for something that even the government has not the answer of what is the resource of it.
For many centuries men fought to rule the world and yet it seems more we have the power to give an order more we want to undervalue other believes.
For many years we fought for our selfishness to destroy anything that it is a front of our road. What the amazing of our greedy action is that we think we are untouchable.  We put some people’s life into our misery behaviour each day.
Life is a journey to learn from our mistakes.
Scandalous or facts we have had lot of errors that happened since the early centuries to learn from. Why that is in nowadays we still ask to fight about something that it is not …


How far we will go to take our revenge because of the hate that we have in our mind, soul and heart? Each day when we are taking the bus, the tube or the train our day is started with a bad mood. Not because we wanted that way but sometimes it is because of people we meet in our journey. Those people indirectly tend to contaminate our mind with negativity.
Certainly we didn’t ask for it but it happens.
In our daily life they are people who hate us for some reasons. Those people could be our family, friends or even we. The source of the hate is coming from jalousie. Yes, the hate is started from the desire to be someone that we are not. Yes, the hate came from a desire to have someone’s life at any cost. We become greedy and keen to do what need to be done to save our image. The hate drives us into destroying someone’s life in exchange of job title. The hate drives us to emotionally bullying to an individual just because we can’t stand to see the beauty of our co-workers. The hate d…

The dishonest love

How many women / men think that they have met the person of their dream? How many women / men believe that they have found their love destiny? How many women / men know that we married an honest kind? It is facts that the true love does exist even if it takes strong storm before we met the rare diamond. It is facts that the true care is out there but sometimes we have to struggle before we can enjoy the happy ever after.
Scandalous or facts we need to be sure that when our partner undervalued us with a small sign in daily life; we shouldn’t fear to talk about it before it is becoming constant verbal insult. 
Scandalous or facts we need to react sooner when our partner said that without him/ her we were nothing if they weren’t there; we are with the wrong partner – runaway.
A true partner shouldn’t ever underestimate us from our weakness. A true partner shouldn’t ever take their pride from our past failure by specifying that if they weren’t there to light our path we were still i…