Before we even start to make the first step, fears of not reaching our vision, we stopped believing; we given up.
I am talking not only from my own experience but through my family, close friends, former work colleagues, former partners and people which I had chance to have that little chat while waiting the public transport at the platforms or while I am trying to have a quality time with my cuppa of tea to one of those coffee shops in the heart of the lost city.
During our childhood we have so many dreams, wonderful dreams, back then; we never have any clue how we are going to make our fairytale dreams to be real. But we keep dreaming and talk about it as if we own and living that dream already.
Nobody teach us how to reach our vision, we just go with the flow. But then, we reach the age of entering to life active. The way how we see life isn’t anymore as we lived while we were a child. The word “Money” seem coming into our life almost every second. The word education is a word that we want but we don’t want. Working is then part of daily vocabulary but we seem not getting there yet.
Then we have the wakeup call! Yes, the famous wakeup call where we see some of people getting richer, get a better job, luxury life but we are not. We start to wonder within us, why is that? Why they can and we can’t?
I believe that if we did meet the right person to guide us with correct advice to understand the system of life, we will be wiser in our life. I believe that if we had the right education sooner we were in the age to learn, we will have a vast ideas of options. I believe if people did take time to explain between bad and good instead of just say “You do as I said.” or “Go to your room!” may be, yes may be we will have more confidante of ourselves, of who we are.
We wonders if were born on the wrong time or end up with the wrong parents. But that doesn’t stop our dream to come true if we really want to. I don’t believe that thing happen just by praying and waiting for that miracle to happen in our life. I believe that the prayers are playing huge part of our wish but somehow, we still have to give our best. Somehow we still have to get up from our bed, take the shower, get ready and do whatever we could by using our best ability. Then the rest, we live on the spiritual touch and said “I did what I could do; now I can praise and rest.”
The fears to not succeed is hunting us, the doubt of how far we can go is stirring inside of our brain. We get confused from many influences that we are not sure anymore where to start to get things right. The impact of negativity responds that we have perceived is stronger than our own soul. Scandalous or facts, we start to lose our faith.
The journey to re-gain our faith is going to be the longest ride. We have this motivation to do something about our life. We give all of strength to reach our destination, but somehow, there is something holding us, the hope is there but not there.
Scandalous of facts, we can earn our hope back. It is not going to be easy, but we can get there. What we need to do is to repeating ourselves the word “Yes” I can do it. We need to stop to be surrounded with the negative people. We need to start to learn to say “thank you but not thanks” to those who always criticising us as if they know better about our life than we. Scandalous or facts, the power to change our life is within us, we need to start to wake it up. Scandalous or facts, we need to learn to see who we are.
Every morning before leaving our for the day, and before going to bed, let us have that little mediation to get our faith back. If we put all of our believe on everything we do, we will get there, because our success is just at the bottom of our heart, ready to flourish when we are ready to do so. So yes, we can make things happen but we have to believe, who will trust us if we don’t even see how far we can go!
I guess this message is specially written for the author (Me) :)