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We can be the light of our enemies!

We stepped into our darkness, it is part of life, and it is the life that we are living in thanks to our family, the friends, the government and the system itself. In the heart of anxiety, most of the times we start to build that anger against to each individual that has torn us down. Trying to understand why people do things just to see us falling apart!  We can’t even understand that specific provocation we have received in the middle or even when we just about to start our first step to our new life. “BOOM” someone shots us down. “BOOM” we are in the heart of diversion, which road to take?  “BOOM” we are trapped.

In the heart of that wonder of why we have been betrayed, the light isn't bright enough to guide our route. Our thought is going deeper as the exit to walk out from our depression is nowhere to be seen. We are blind of everything we see surrounding us, we focus on what we want to see; we become stubborn. In that specific situation of disappointment; nothing matter any more, not even our present. We become robot of the routine of everyday life; home, work and home.

Before we could be awake of our deep sleep on our sadness of sorrow, we build that revenge inside of us. We want to make sure that each individual who put us in the misery will get punishment more than we have had suffered for. That revenge is right there in our heart.
Time is our healing, we learn to ask more questions, we learn to observe, we learn to listen of what people are talking, thank to the times we learn to be patient.

Then, slowly we start to better understand of what happened to us, we start to be clear why we met those people while we were lost. We start to understand where our mistakes were. We start to understand who we are. We start to understand that life is not worth to take revenge. We start to understand that we should keep our energy for something that matter for us than wasting it on hating people.

The healing is a journey, can be months, years, decades, but it well worth it indeed. But to make sure that we understood well that journey of understanding, the beginning to say farewell to our past is a must. We need to start to learn to forgive our enemies and look of what they did to us into the bright side. Thank to our enemies, they have made us stronger person emotionally and physically. Thanks to our traitor, they have built our strength to a new us.

Scandalous or facts, when  we forgive our enemies it is not that we are losing our pride, or we admitting that they were right about our weakness, facts is we are making peace within us. We are free from our past, we are free from our fate, we are free from our doubts, we are free from our fears, we are free from our grief, and that is the most important that we should focus on forgiving our rivals.

Scandalous or facts, if we show to our enemies the love, the cares and respects that we have toward them, let us pray for their salvation and let God to take care of things that it is not in our hands. After all, who are we to judge people of their strange action! It is not up to us to decide who is right or wrong and punishing them for the pleasure of our anger!  Let us be our enemies lead as example! Let us smile and be humble to them at every temptation that they try to wake up the old personality that we used to have. Let us be privileged because we do meet those people for a reason, they cross our path for a purpose; our wakeup call! 


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