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You are Unique!!!

Most of the time we are wondering about our appearances, we are wondering of what people think of how we are dressed.  We are wondering more than we should for public eyes than what is most important for ourselves. The system has indeed impact our life more than we should. We don’t have enough strength to stop the system to impact our brain. We are easily to be influenced.

We are all formed as unique to other, with specific gift that we can’t share to other but we definitely can help to lift someone’s life. Some of our gift is may be not to lead the way to our friends but listen their wanders. Some of gift is may be not to fix someone finance’s situation but we can help them to be wise. Let us not be sad if we don’t have that beauty that we see on the magazine, instead, encourage ourselves to see the natural beauty that we owned without those powder all over our face. Some of us may be gifted to heal our pain, but that okay if you can’t help on finding that perfect job, because that is what made each of us is unique.
There is no need to be ashamed of something that we didn’t earn fairly in an honesty play. There is no need to fear to fail if you haven’t given your best yet. There is no need to cry for success if we are no ready to welcome it yet. All we have is about acknowledging our skills. All we have is about been blessed of who we are. All we have is about loving that beauty while we are looking ourselves in a mirror, and admire it, love it and keep praising that we are indeed, each of us is unique.

If you have a scar in part of your body, yes, when you look at it you wished it not there. When you look at your teeth all are from up and down, you wished you have beautiful teeth as white and well standard as Jennifer Aniston. When you look at the fatness that you gave on our legs, and you wished you have scarlet Johnsons’ body instead. May be it time to learn to fall in love to our little scars, may be it time to admire the beauty of our teeth, may be it time be privileged to have that fatness, at least our future husband or wife will have something to touch. Because that is why each of us is unique!

Scandalous or facts, we can’t blame our family of how awkward we become as our body is changing from baby hood to childhood, then to a young adult life. We can’t focus on that negativity about ourselves and give up on life. But do we need to be someone’s life just for sake of unreal friendship to not find ourselves alone in a corner of a room? Is it worth to lose our identity for someone that just want us because we are their clown?


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