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At the age of reason, we start to discover about ourselves. We begin to observe what going on around us. We have this wonderful idea of how we want our life to be. We dream of that true love to come to our life. We have this fairytale best friend that we are going to lean our head from bad to good time. We have this vision of a good job with great money.
Everything seems so beautiful. We don’t see any sign of scars nowhere during that season of starting to build our new life far from our sweet home full of caring. Then we start to fly. We start to get our own place. We start to do things that we haven’t had a chance to do while we were at our parent’s house or did it but secretly.
We are in our journey of naivety. We are starting to get hurt. We get betrayed. We get mistreated and most of all, we are about to learn something about people. We learnt to understand that we have still more to learn about ourselves. We are going to be surprised to see who we really are. We are going to be shocked how far people can go to destroy us.
It is so easy to get criticised while people don’t like us for whatever the true reason is. Sometimes it will take us years to understand that, but we will. We are in that period where we are confused, lost, anxiety and most of the critics we get; start building a state of depression.
People, will point their fingers to us. They won’t think twice to do so. The worst that is to happen is when the person that we have chosen to put our trust. This person can be anyone, our family, our best friends, and our partner. They are closely to betray us indeed.
It is an amazing journey, but somehow, we kind ask ourselves how dare people point their fingers to us without a shame? Haven’t they ever analysed that when they point their fingers toward us, they should first check the number of fingers point back to them? Who are we to judge people when we are not even perfect?
We are such hypocrite telling people what to do. We are such face off when we trying to advice people about their behaviour. We are such loser when our life isn’t yet well settled that we try to be a coacher to someone’s life just because of that particular unseen hate.
How dare are we to raise our fingers as if we are the simply the best. In this life, not one is perfect. We all have our little dirty secret that even aware of it true, we have a problem to accept it. We don’t want to change our habits, but we want people to do for our little interest. Most of all, those people that pointing their fingers toward us, sad to say but they are those whom we believed that we can count on, they are our sublimes, yep family is also part of those journey of betrayal.
But there is nothing wrong to share our darkness momentum; after all, life isn't a joy if we don’t fall. There is not achievement if we don’t lose, and definitely we will not have the full understand the true meaning for friendship definition if we don’t cheat. But just before we point our fingers to anyone, and specially been aware of it, think twice, as it is not up to us to judge anyone in this globe. We suppose to support not to make someone cry. Do count home many fingers is pointed back to you when you point one of your finger to someone. So don’t we dare point your fingers at...
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